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Guest Post: Baby Sign Language Beginner’s Tips

Oct

2010

I’m excited to feature a guest post today from Misty Weaver, fellow mommy and editor-in-chief at BabySignLanguage.com. As you may remember from my previous post, baby sign language was an essential communication tool in our household. It was a pretty magical-slash-eerie moment when finally, one day out of the blue, Noob Baby started signing “more milk” and “all done.” I won’t deny that I felt a “tad” triumphant to have something to show for all those times I felt silly signing to my little blob. But in the end, I really feel like signing not only helped eliminate a lot of communication frustration, but it also facilitated Noob Baby speaking earlier than we expected.

So thank you, Misty, for providing the following Beginner’s Tips, and be sure to stop by her website for more resources on how to sign with your noob.

Start to sign as soon as you can

The sooner you start signing to your baby, the sooner he will begin to communicate his needs back to you. You can start at any time, even from birth. Don’t be afraid to make a start. Once you do, the rest just flows.

Get Daddy involved early on

Often dads feel left out when bringing up a young baby, especially if Mom is breastfeeding. Signing is something baby and daddy can do together, creating a special bond. Get your baby’s father involved early on so he can be a part of the signing journey.

Make it fun

So many things these days are just plain hard work! Baby Signing is supposed to be fun – and that’s one of the reasons it works so well. At first your baby will just watch you making the signs and will probably just smile or laugh. You may feel silly. This is good for you and for your baby. Parenthood should have as many light moments as possible.

Use Flash Cards to help

Baby Sign Language Flash Cards are a valuable teaching aid to help you develop the signing vocabulary of your baby. Flash cards work because they are a visual stimulus for you and baby, and create extra interest in the idea or object you are signing.

Go to a baby sign language class

If you are struggling with your first signs try a Sign Language For Babies class. Classes are a great way to meet other signing parents and have fun together. There will be lots of signing and signing, with toys and other prompts to aid the learning of the signs. Babies are welcome at classes from birth, so it’s never too soon to go along and give it a try.

Start with signs that are super-exciting to baby

The first signs you teach to your baby should be ones that are really exciting to him. Concrete things like Mommy, Daddy, Milk or Book are the best signs to begin with. It’s easier to engage a baby’s attention with these signs before moving on to more complex ones.

Repeat the signs often

Once you have decided on your first sign or signs, repeat these many times each day. Babies learn through repetition and you will need to repeat the signs often for a number of months before your baby will pick them up.

Encourage your baby

Babies and young children seek only to please, so remember to encourage all your baby’s efforts at signing. Only through constant encouragement and praise will your baby master signing.

Be patient

Our top tip for beginners is to be patient and have realistic expectations. Your baby won’t be signing regularly within weeks of you starting to teach him baby sign language, but he may be using one or two signs within a couple of months.

Have you had success with baby signs? I’d love to hear your comments about what signs you’ve used and any other tips you may have!

What Does All That Crying Mean?

Oct

2008

As a noob parent, it is totally confusing trying to figure out what the heck your baby wants when she’s wailing like a little banshee and you’re a mombie. Noob Daddy very proudly (though not productively) solved this problem by giving Noob Baby her bottle every time she squeaked. Problem solved, and now we have the fattest baby west of the Mississippi.

I have to admit, Noob Daddy’s solution didn’t sit so well with me. Maybe it was the lack of scientific thought, or simply because I was tired of being the boob-pacifier-mommy-cure-all. So instead, I found Tracy Hogg’s

Secrets of the Baby Whisperer quite helpful in providing me some clues about baby crying cues. Here are Hogg’s observations from the chapter titled “S.L.O.W. Down.”

Tired or Overtired

Cranky, irregular-frequency fussing. Three short wails followed by a hard cry, then two short breaths and a longer, even louder cry. If left alone to cry, may eventually fall asleep. Blinking, yawning, back arching, leg kicking, squirming, grabbing at face.

Overstimulated

Long, hard cry, similar to overtired. Turning head away. Flailing arms and legs.

Hunger

Slight cough-like sound in the back of throat, then out comes first cry. Short to begin with, then more steady. Waa, waa, waa rhythm. Baby starts to root and tongue comes out. Turning of head from side to side. Pulling fist toward mouth.

Needs a Change of Scenery

Cranky fussing starting with noises of annoyance rather than outright cries. Turns away from object placed before her and plays with fingers.

Pain/Gas

Shrill, high-pitched scream that comes without warning. Whole body tenses and becomes rigid. Pulls knees upward to chest. Face is scrunched in pain.

Too Cold

Full-out crying with bottom lip quivering. Tiny goosebumps on skin. May shiver and have cold extremities.

Too Hot

Fussy whine that sounds more like panting. Low at first, about five minutes and then will eventually launch into a cry. Feels hot and sweaty, flushed. Panting instead of regular breathing. May see red blotches on face and torso.

Where’d you go?

Cooing sounds suddenly turn into little short waas, similar to a kitten. Crying stops when baby is picked up. Looks around trying to find you.

Overfeeding

Fussing or crying after meal. Spits up frequently.

Bowel Movement

Grunts or cries while feeding. Squirms and bears down. May stop nursing.

Guest Post: Baby Sign Language Beginner’s Tips